Oh, you can tell spring is fast approaching because love is
in the air! My best friend is getting engaged and I cannot express my excitement
for her! As I look around I notice my singleness and I can’t help but to laugh
about it. I am the only single one out of all my friends and the only single
one at work. It is so like me to be the different one. I have been out of the
game so long I don’t even realize when guys are flirting with me, it’s sad
really. So considering my best friends hate the fact that I am single (more
than I even do) they have set out on a mission to hook me up. This consists of
three guys, Mr. Recently Divorced, Mr. Single Dad, and Mr. Looking for a Good
Time. While I am so far not interested in any of them I decided to humor my friends
and let one of the three take me on a date next weekend. I might back out for all
I know! I am quite nervous. This will be my first date in two years. But I know
the day will come one day when I need to move on and I guess that day will be
next Saturday. No matter how the date goes I am happy that I am finally doing
something after dealing with the split from my daughter’s father that has taken
me two years to face. Considering he is no longer in my life or hers I guess I
owe it to her to find an appropriate male role model. Wish me luck! My feet are
freezing!
Stephanie, I am glad that you are moving on, and that you took the time you needed to free yourself of the past. I know this could not have been easy for you, but it seems as if you had some support to help you move on. I am happy you have friends that take such an interest in you; they obviously care for you a lot, but don’t venture into the world of dating again unless you are certain that you are ready, not even to humor your friends. Only a strong woman could have survived the loss you suffered; that is what you are, and you will know when you are truly ready. I wish you all the best, and do not forget that even in matters of the heart it is important to ask for guidance from above.
ReplyDeleteGood for you girl! It is so nice to see a Mother who cares about her child as much as you. It is so responsible of you to put that baby first and find her a role model. It is the best gift you could give her. I know from experience. Just be yourself and have fun~ Good luck!
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